Monday, January 26, 2009

Letting Go...

Here is where pride comes in and we are hoping beyond hope that DH's brother, R, will let go of some of his and try to talk to my husband. My hubby would love nothing more than to reunite with his brothers, no one is getting younger and he knows their late mother would have never wanted this(the fight started at the time of her death about her will and such).

I am so amazingly proud of my husband!! Even as soon as this time last year he wouldnt have wanted a reunion, still hurt by the way his brothers treated him and their mother while she lay on her death bed and then right after she died. It hurt him a great deal and he wasnt up for releasing that anger and hurt. Now he is and I couldnt be prouder to see him let it go and focus on the future, not the past.

I adore my man!

We spent yesterday at a park with B and her daughter. My hubby and B talked it all out, she wants the family back together as well. I so hope that R lets go of some of his pride and lets go some of the anguish he feels that can only be fixed when he sees his mom again, and talks to my husband and that they can build a bridge for everyones sake.

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